Everything and everyone hurts. We imagine our hurts are unprecedented in this world. But that's not true, is it?
I came across this question today, somewhere on the internet. And I've been thinking about it.
How do you console yourself when you're upset?
Lately, I've been turning to 'Uhgood' - what happens is I feel worse after I start listening to the song and I have a raging cry, and then I feel comforted. This is the only song that has ever had this sort of effect on me. I find it pretty amazing.
I sleep. Nothing is as therapeutic as good sleep. The harsh feelings are mostly gone and I can breathe easily.
Reach out to a friend.
I write. Sometimes it makes sense. Sometimes it is utter rubbish. But when I'm seeking comfort, venting either by talking to a friend or writing furiously dilutes my pain.
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